Advantages of dating a black women
If I explain some racially complex subtlety of life to my white girlfriend, that's one more white person who knows why using "ghetto" as a pejorative is cringeworthy and offensive.
I have my own unique experiences and some of them include having dated women who are white, but because interracial dating is such a historically tense and loaded subject, it's hardly ever looked at with any understanding or compassion for the people personally involved.
I can't say that my own mother has never asked, "When are you going to bring home a girl who looks like me?
" Running around with white girls comes across as a rejection of your blackness to the women in your family, even though that wasn't the case. The girls who showed me the most attention at school were white.
Sure, they divorce but you can only divorce if you at least attempt a marriage.
THEY DON’T GLAMOURIZE IGNORANCE They may listen to rap music, but they are smart enough not to act it out. White men have a firmer grasp on what really defines manhood.
I started to see what it really meant to be in an interracial relationship.