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From the Web-based heavy hitters like Ok Cupid, e Harmony, and Plenty of Fish on down to newer apps like Skout, How About We, and Meet Moi, they’re all developed by men.

This might not seem like a big deal, until you consider one read on why Grindr has been so successful: the app has a “for us by us” appeal to gay men.

It was created by the same folks who made Grindr, the hookup app that’s become ubiquitous in the gay community.

In June, Grindr announced it now has four and a half million users (six hundred thousand of them in the U.

S.), and that they spend an average of ninety minutes browsing every single day.

Contrast Grindr’s success with that of Blendr: the founders weren’t willing to disclose the number of users, opting instead to send me an anodyne statement that they “are thrilled with the pace of Blendr’s growth,” which, they say, “was faster in the first six months of launch than Grindr’s adoption rate during its first six months.” The company declined to say how many of those users are actually, well, using the app.

If my own reaction is any indication, it’s no wonder.

After my initial session, I only opened the app to show it to friends, scrolling through pages and pages of unappealing men in what resembled a masochistic digital-age performance-art piece titled “Why I’m Single.”In truth, though, I tried Blendr not to find love, but at the behest of a bevy of Web developers.

And a woman’s shirtless mirror selfie is worth more lewd messages than she can read.

“Attitudes towards sex have shifted massively in the past decade or so, not just amongst young people.”And not just among men.

But you wouldn’t know it by looking at the founders of every major dating start-up.

Don’t Close Yourself Off Online dating is rife with unrequited messages and unsuccessful dates—each a fresh leak in the life raft of your hapless heart.

That sounds bad enough to make anyone hide behind towering walls of sarcasm. Do you think football players rely on sarcasm to protect them when they’re about to be tackled by some monster linebacker?

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