Beautiful intimidating women lonely
Hooking up with a girl deemed unattractive by your buddies is explained away by your drunkenness, and is vastly preferable to “not getting any.” This leads most guys to pursue whatever woman they feel is most likely to accept their advances.
Beautiful women, expecting to have a high mating value, find themselves targeted by only the most sexually aggressive men.
Where I was short and curvy, with dark hair, the ideal California girl was…well, you know exactly who she was. In the end, guys didn’t like me much in high school, but the girls did.
I wound up as court jester to the most beautiful, perfect blondes on campus.
It’s clear that like everyone else, she’s had her share of disappointments and douchebags, though I have a hard time imagining that she doesn’t get and keep whoever the hell she wants.
Conventional wisdom and research provide lots of evidence that good-looking people enjoy many advantages in life.
Gentlemen might say they prefer brains to blondes, but it seems that when faced with a romantic evening of oysters with a woman who might have far-superior brain power, many would rather pass to spend it with someone with far less mental wattage.Not intimidation necessarily, but a conviction that they’re just not in her league. They need to try to initiate things, make eye contact with guys that they like.They should smile and be cute.”“As far as looks go, “cute” is accessible, “pretty” is inaccessible, and “beautiful”, unattainable.They make friends more easily, get more promotions at work, and presumably have no trouble attracting members of the opposite sex.They are perceived to have a very high mating value.
So why do I know so many beautiful unhappy and lonely women? To the rest of us, beautiful people are coasting on their looks, getting all sorts of stuff they didn’t have to work for.