Interracial dating wrong
He wants to do better than what he had when he was growing up.However, for as good as I think this relationship is, many of the people close to me have concerns.The fact that so much emphasis in our culture is placed on sex as bonding in relationships I believe makes it harder for people to see a relationship as getting to know one another personally.For us, being in an interracial relationship has only made our bond stronger, because not only are we sometimes fighting against the negative people in this world, we are also making a stand against the negativity in this world.Because of all these conversations, I’ve thought a lot about interracial relationships, and I think common thoughts about them should be talked about.My interracial relationship is understandably very visible.There are swirling sites run by black men and women and even a forthcoming coming film, which hopes to appeal to the “Rainbeau” dater in all of us..You don’t see white therapists or white relationship experts or other white folks with alphabets behind their names and a platform, spouting the virtues of dating black men and women.
But while the topic has no doubt been beaten to death by the black media there are still no shortages of articles directed towards interracial relationships.In my current relationship I couldn’t have found a better man.He is so grounded and motivated, he wants to provide for his family and give them whatever they could want.Of course, everyone’s background is different and certainly cultural norms play into those differences.But, it’s more important to look at individual actions and not racial or cultural stereotypes. He has a really good job and he is committed to his son and me.
And if there are folks willing to read it, than you can place the blame solely on black media for continuing to cater to their audience. So much for thinking that the milk is less spoiled on the other side.