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In fact, I’ve taken the time to write down what I’ve found to be the biggest mistakes that foreign men make, during years of living in Korea and professionally helping men date Asian women.#5 Thinking that Korean women are easy Before I came to Korea, I was very excited because I imagined that Korea was a lot like South East Asia: Just show up and women will be lining up to go on dates with you! Korea, I soon found out once I arrived here, is on the opposite side of the dating spectrum. Life’s tough for us (I’m darker skinned as well) but if you really want to find and date the ideal Korean woman for you, it’s definitely possible and we’ll make it happen!#3 Don’t take advantage of that first impression Ever wondered why Italians and French were so successful at scoring dates with American or Canadian women? Unfortunately, when I ride the subway, take the bus, hang out in Itaewon I see too many foreigners who look the same! They look like English teachers who just got off of work and are about to go to a bar. They remind me more of the typical businessman adjosshi than the exciting and mysterious foreigner.It’s because they take advantage of the first impression. To other men, they look like a typical guy with dark features, a weird accent, a slightly aggressive vibe, and an edgy look. Foreigners are seen as different and exotic., Then how about using that to our advantage?You can go to coffee shops, bookstores, parks (during this time of year it’s great), such as Namsan park.
On top of that, you’re going to have communication barriers beyond just language.Finally, you need to ask yourself how long you plan on living in Korea and if it’s worth it at all! When it comes to relationships, the only difference between dating in North Korea and South Korea is that both countries have different governments (Not that I’ve tried anything in North Korea!😉 ) In spite of the “integration” that’s been happening in South Korea’s tourism industry, a Korean woman dating a foreign man is frowned upon and a woman’s peers assume that she is unable to find a proper Korean man so she has to settle for a foreigner. I told you, this is going to be brutal, but if you plan on coming here, I want you to know what I wish someone had told me.Another key note is that Korean women love knowing that they have control of the date. You see, being with a foreigner is still very new and different for her, regardless of whether or not you’re a gyopo or not.This is quite different from Western women who enjoy being on the saddle more and feeling like they are taking control of the interaction. You want to calibrate how much hand-holding, touching, and especially kissing when you’re with her.
Even more so, you want to expect that she will feel uncomfortable with the situation.