I don't worry about that stuff though because I don't use FB that way any longer.I only add people I know very well and avoid all business contacts on my personal FB -- they need to request me on Linked In.I just need advice because I don't know what to do but I can't keep doubting her! I mean I'll be the first to admit I am VERY strict with what I tolerate in a relationship but your paranoia is too much.
I know when my girlfriend was at school when we first started dating, I sometimes got paranoid and started thinking about things.
Anyways, I can't stand this doubt in my head any longer but I don't know how to bring it up. We only hang out a few times a week so it's hard for me to look for clues, also I don't wanna be looking for clues I just wanna know if she's being unfaithful or not. We had a talk about the lack of communication and I suggested we break up but there's something very strong that draws me to her and I think it is mutual so we both decided that it is worth working on the relationship. And you spend all of your time stalking them both and drawing inferences, based on Facebook use?
I just need advice because I don't know what to do but I can't keep doubting her! Your trust issues are rooted within you, not because of anything she's done. Don't be surprised when you go snooping around looking for something that you find what you deem inappropriate.
Several times their Facebook activity would coincide -they would appear active at the same times and inactive at the same times and for the same period of time.
I know it sounds a bit irrational but I see it as a too much of a coincidence.
But when we she moved in with me, that really took things to the next level and it tends to make people's behavior better otherwise they break up.