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Or as Dan Savage calls it, we are “monogamish.” Even that can look really different from relationship to relationship.One married couple I’m friends with has a couple of girlfriends between them, and they also have their own partners (she has both male and female partners, and he has female partners).They also welcome multitudes into their bed for great big orgies.
Nobody knows me like Adam does, and nobody is going to know him like I do.We made a new rule then: No sleeping with Facebook friends, no friending lovers. Every attractive woman was a potential threat in my mind, and I was paranoid about my boyfriends’ connections with other people.Rule 5: Two different lovers in one week is a little much, so we try to avoid that. Since our communication never allowed for a simple conversation about how beautiful some woman was, or how cute a guy I saw was, any amount of flirting was catastrophic. Besides, a little jealousy can be healthy, and it usually fades after a few hours to a few days.And of course, let each other know when we'll be seeing someone else.Rule 4: We don't date friends or anyone that we know—including anyone we are friends with on social media.
When I really stop to think about it, I know that there’s very little chance that he’s seeing anyone who is going to be better for him than I am.